Setting Boundaries

Although extended family has not crossed my boundaries in some time (knock on wood), I think it’s a good time to reflect back on my post in May 2022.  Since then I have identified what brings me happiness (for now), acknowledged my most important roles and defined my core values.  Not only does this roll into making better decisions, it can help me better define my boundaries.

To serve as a reminder of Rachel Wright’s article, below is the 3-step process to set healthy boundaries:

1. Acknowledge:  Acknowledge the request (I would love for you to stop by today)
2. Explain:  Explain how you feel (but I’m mentally overwhelmed and need quiet time.)
3. Offer:  This is where you state your boundary (Can I call you tomorrow.   Hopefully, I’ll be in a better frame of mind.)

And if forced to provide a reason, I’ll remember to rely on my default response, “I’m taking a mental health break.” 

How to Set Boundaries with Anyone In Your Life
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Weeks of life left:  1,165

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